Thursday, December 31, 2015

New Goal Alert!

Hi Love!


In creating this blog, my goal was to make a platform for women to converse, exchange ideas and feel empowered at all times. Now, I am wondering if I achieved my goal. Today I am writing to 3500 of you and I am extremely grateful that you use my blog for that specific purpose.

Moving forward I would like to know how I can expand the communication between women and brands. As you know, I connect my posts with my Twitter account and would love to know all of your ideas. Please feel free to tweet me @imodeljustice

To help me enhance this experience for everyone this blog will become more personal. I am planning to gather stories from my life and the experiences of my family and friends to help provide a solution for women all across the globe.

So I'm writing this to let you know that I'm back, I'm better and I'm ready to get to work.


-- Love Rae

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

How To Be Superwoman!

Hi Love!


This is not about Megan Fox - this is about being the best version of yourself. Let's begin.

There's a woman I know who would do anything for her family. Whether she is paying bills, providing clothes, sharing her wisdom or even standing in front of a bullet. For this woman there is no limit to her superpowers. To me this woman is the closest thing to a superhero I have ever seen and because of that I wanted to share these top tips with you.


  1. Aim for the best - as human beings we have one life and we should live as we please. 
  2. Find light in everything around you - never look at your circumstances as the final stage in your life. Without a doubt always remain positive. 
  3. Follow your heart but take your mind with you - always make smart decisions. These decisions will determine the direction of your life. 
  4. Speak truthfully and proudly - your word is all that you have. Make sure that your word is true so that you will attract honest and sincere people into your life. 
  5. Work on your goals - everyday should be spent making moves towards your goals. 
  6. Breathe life into others - empower others and support their endeavors. If you don't believe in their goals try to guide them in a more positive direction. 
  7. Communicate with your loved ones - creating these bonds are crucial to your mental health.



These are all the tips you need to become Superwoman. I hope that helps you along your journey. Talk to you next week!


- Love Rae

Saturday, December 19, 2015

Starting A Savings Plan!

Hi Love!

I am starting a savings plan and I want you to join me. For me saving money is becoming a huge task for me especially around this time. Between buying Christmas gifts, shopping on Black Friday and Cyber Monday to planning New Year's party activities, I still struggle to save money but now I am ready. Here are our options:



Depending if you have a goal, want to go on vacation or are doing this to move out of your apartment each of these should be perfect. Do what's best for you and don't forget to challenge yourself.

save $50.00 every month = $600.00 for the year

save $75.00 every month = $900.00 for the year

save $100.00 every month = $1200.00 for the year

save $150.00 every month = $1800.00 for the year

or

save $10.00 dollars a week = $520.00 a year

save $20.00 dollars a week = $1,040.00 a year

save $25.00 dollars a week = $1,300.00 a year

Good Luck!

--Love Rae


Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Building The Direction of Your Life!

Hi Love!

What is your story? In the future, how would you like to retell your story?


Each day I am creating my story and making the life that I want to live. It's important for me to feel accomplished, productive and definitely empowered. If you are reading this blog you must want to feel that way also. Well I'm here to share this special story with you.

There's this woman I know who grew up in a suburban household. One day she moved to an entire new state and she met the love of her life. This gentleman did not feel the same. Soon she became pregnant and of course her child became fatherless -- What was she to do?

She decides to get a job. 10 years pass and she is still at her first real job. She has another child and the story repeats itself. What was she to do?

Reality sets in

No money, no help.

What should she do?

My answer is to never give up. Change her decisions and start aiming for a more positive life. This woman can tell her story in so many different ways. She can tell tales of sadness, desperation and loneliness or she can tell a story of triumph. Her choice.

I hope this story resonated with one of you as it did with me. Just remember its all about how you face your challenges and build your weaknesses. Keep going love.


-- Love Rae

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Are You Planning to Change in 2016?

Hi Love!

Recently, I have watched a ton of videos about people planning to make changes in the new year however I don't believe in waiting...for anything.


Change now! As long as you are changing for the better, I suggest that you work on yourself, your career, your family, and your finances everyday. These small commitments will really create large improvements in your life.

One of the best tips I can share with you is to check yourself!

Check everything that you are doing. Double and maybe even Triple check that you are being the best you as possible.

For me I have to give myself an evaluation every month to see if I progressed. Since December has just begun, it is still a great time for you to create a list of goals that you would like to accomplish.

-- Love Rae

Monday, December 7, 2015

Special Announcement! #GivingTuesday

Hi Love!

We missed Giving Tuesday last week but we aren't missing it again. Please check out the tips below to see how you can enter especially if you or someone you know deserves the recognition. Plus the winner will win a nice new pair of designer shoes from Marc Fisher. 



MARC FISHER LTD’s #MAKEYOURMARC platform celebrates women who are making their ‘marc’. Whether it’s making positive change in the community, education, arts, human rights, health, technology, philanthropy or volunteerism – MARC FISHER LTD is giving grants up to $5,000 to help each person support their cause.

Know someone who deserve the recognition? It’s simple. 

Go to http://makeyourmarc.marcfisherfootwear.com/nominate/ and fill in the quick form.

To learn more about the other #MAKEYOURMARC role models, please visit here.

Ready set go!

-- Love Rae

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Bonnie Ross & The Halo Effect ( Part 2)

Hi Love!

Here's part 2:


AN ENGINEERING START

Bonnie Ross started her college career in engineering, in part because her dad was an engineer. But as was typical during that time, she was one of the only women in her engineering major. In addition to wanting more creativity, she found it difficult to see how the skills she was learning would translate to a job in a STEM discipline.

“It’s a common challenge, especially with women in STEM fields, not being able to see what you can do with that education,” Ross says. “If you become a doctor, you know you’re going to end up with a stethoscope around your neck. In engineering, you don’t always see how to apply it. It’s not an obvious endgame.”

It’s a problem that CSU has already taken on: The university recently received a $2 million grant from the National Science Foundation to better connect what is taught in electrical and computer engineering with real-world applications. Ross lauds efforts like these to increase the number of women in the pipeline for STEM fields.

“We have an issue that starts in high school and college,” she says. “You can’t recruit them if they’re not there. How do we make technology and engineering the fields that both men and women want to pursue?”

Jan Nerger, dean of the College of Natural Sciences, where Ross studied computer science and physics, agrees.

“It’s a huge priority in our college, recruiting and retaining more women in the STEM disciplines,” she says. “Someone like Bonnie is such a wonderful role model for how women can be successful in these fields. We need to provide women with more support and networking. For example, in our college all female faculty belong to our Women in Natural Sciences program, which works to promote and sustain a positive environment for women.”

SWITCH TO JOURNALISM

At CSU, Ross ended up switching to a fledgling technical writing track in the journalism department during the 1987-88 school year. Through that program she gained a summer internship at IBM, where they liked her work so much they kept her on.

“This move seriously changed my life,” she says. “This was an amazing three-month internship, and because they thought I was doing a good job, it got extended to a two-year internship. My combination of technology and writing was hugely beneficial.”

In her free time, Ross wrote UNIX programming manuals for CSU’s computer labs. She was also an assistant coach for high school tennis teams and junior high basketball. She graduated in 1989 with a degree in technical communication and a concentration in physics and computer science.

“When I applied to technology companies because of my degree in technical communication, which was brand-new at the time, it really opened up a lot of opportunities,” Ross says. “Hewlett Packard, Texas Instruments, Microsoft and others opened their doors to me because they said they had a bunch of fiction writers trying to be tech writers.”

“She tied together an innovative collection of courses, including computer programming, physics and math,” says Greg Luft, head of CSU’s Department of Journalism and Media Communication, who recalls having Ross in one of his classes. “She did that 10 years ahead of the Information Science and Technology academic minor, which was created to help students like Bonnie blend programs in journalism and media communication, computer science, computer information systems, business and psychology. She was well ahead of her time.”

Between the IBM internship and CSU education, Ross says she was well-prepared.

“Coming out of that overall experience, I felt very technically ready,” she explains. “I definitely felt I could hold my own, and that was critical to moving through the company at Microsoft. The skill set I had helped me move up the ladder in program management.”

Fittingly, her first job in games was as producer of an early basketball game for the PC. She predicts that technical experience, more than gender, will make the difference in who gets jobs in the industry in the coming decade.

“I believe, in the next five to 10 years, it’s not going to matter who you are,” Ross says. “If you don’t have a technical background, you won’t go far.”

ADVICE FOR PARENTS

Now, she has two kids of her own, ages 8 and 9. She says that as a parent, she limits her older child to the mobile Halo games and a sneak peek at the new Halo 5: Guardians, which are rated for teens. She acknowledges that parents need to make the right decision for their children — but if their kids play games, her advice is to join them.

“Your kids are going to play games,” Ross says. “I highly recommend playing with them and talking about it, navigating that experience with them. A lot of the time you get them talking. They’ll open up as they’re playing.”

Her chosen field ended up being an ideal combination of her interests. Ross says she enjoys the artistic side, like using various light sources from different angles to develop Halo 5: Guardians, which was released in October.

“To blend art and science, that’s my sweet spot,” she says. “I love how technology is bringing the arts to life. With gaming, I found my place. I found my passion of technology melding with art.”

And Ross credits her staff with the fact that she was the focus of the lead story in Bloomberg Businessweek on Oct. 22.

“I got the cover, but it’s a team of 600 amazingly talented people,” she says. “It’s not me.”

Luft reached out to Ross once he saw the Bloomberg piece.

"When I saw the article and connected Bonnie as a student in my broadcast news class during my first year at CSU, I cringed,” he says. “That sticks in my mind as the single worst class I ever taught, so I felt compelled to send her a note to congratulate her for her success despite the class. She was very gracious, so she either has a bad memory, or is a consummate professional. I’d bet on the latter."

This was such an amazing story and I am so happy I got to share it with you.

-- Love Rae



Thursday, December 3, 2015

Bonnie Ross & The Halo Effect ( Part 1)

Hi Love!

Bonnie Ross, the woman who leads the popular Halo video game franchise says her sports background not only got her into gaming, but helped level the playing field in a traditionally male-dominated field that she wants more women to enter.



She also credits her success to the foundation of technical and communication skills gained from her internship and education while attending Colorado State University.

Bonnie Ross is corporate vice president at Xbox and head of 343 Industries, the studio that oversees the Halo video game franchise. Fortune magazine called her one of the 10 most powerful women in video games in 2014.

“After my talks, I have a ton of women and girls come up to me and say, ‘I didn’t know you could do this,’” Ross says, referring to speeches she has given at events focused on women in science, technology, engineering and math (STEM).

The California native played sports growing up, and her first video game was a rudimentary basketball handheld made by Mattel in the 1970s.

“Ultimately, I ended up in gaming because of sports,” Ross says.

Her sports background paid off in other ways early in her career. Her ability to hang with — if not beat outright — her male co-workers in noon basketball sessions and company softball games helped her gain respect among her peers. It also provided valuable lessons for her profession.

“Having the ability to fail, learn from your failures and surround yourself with people who have other strengths is key,” Ross says. “And leadership does shift, whether it’s on the court or the field. You may start out as the point guard, but your role changes. Leadership is dynamic, and the leader is not always the one out in front. You need to know when to be in front and when to take a step back.”


I knew all of you would enjoy learning about this - The second part of this story will appear this Saturday. Stay tuned!


-- Love Rae

Act Like A CEO!

Hi Love!

Today, success depends on your ability to adapt. You must be agile, willing to adjust your professional expectations, and able to respond quickly to opportunities and threats. You must be able to THINK LIKE AN ENTREPRENEUR, ACT LIKE A CEO: 50 Indispensable Tips to Help You Stay Afloat, Bounce Back, and Get Ahead at Work (Career Press, December 2015).


Master of reinvention and executive coach, Beverly Jones MBA, JD, PCC has spent four decades helping professionals and leaders survive and thrive. In her new book, she shares her practical ways to handle vexing workplace challenges, from gaining self-discipline, taking a career side-step, and accepting praise at work to avoiding self-sabotage, clever ways to brag and recovering from setbacks.

Beverly has shared these amazing tips with you:

Know that it’s not about you. Organizational change is like a torrential rain storm. It’s pouring everywhere, not just on you. Complaining won’t help and bitterness can make your situation worse. It’s vital to job survival that you look at the big picture and focus on the future. Let go of any anger at finding yourself in a game you didn’t sign up for, and concentrate on playing the cards you’ve been dealt.

Know your bosses’ goals. Your longtime supervisor may fondly recall your contributions from a few years back, but that’s probably not enough to save you when the going gets tough. Your most valued colleagues are the ones solving today’s problems and contributing to the achievement of tomorrow’s goals. If you want to do well in the coming months, be sure you understand your bosses’ immediate objectives. Ask yourself: what do they need in order to be successful? And are there more ways I can help them succeed?

Network! Network! Network! Be widely connected. Make friends wherever you go, keep in touch even when you’re busy, and always be willing to offer help or ask for it when you needs it. Whether you are looking for a new job or a new idea, your position will be stronger if you have a broad network. Take the time to listen when you meet someone, join groups, volunteer for projects, and find other ways to get to know people throughout your organization and beyond it.

Reduce financial pressures. Don’t become desperate at the thought of losing your job. When times are uncertain, it’s wise to build up your rainy day fund or lay the groundwork for alternative sources of income. And there could be another benefit to pursuing some sort of entrepreneurial sideline. I’ve noticed that when clients start a side gig, whether it’s consulting or a part-time job, it sometimes brings new energy to their day job. Creating your small business can inspire your entrepreneurial thinking and refresh your career enthusiasm.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Beverly Jones is a master of reinvention. She led university programs for women before trailblazing her career as a Washington lawyer and Fortune 500 energy executive. For 40 years she has helped other professionals and leaders survive and thrive. Since 2002, Jones has built a respected executive coaching and consulting practice, leading retreats and mentoring professionals of all ages to advance their careers, shift directions, or boost their productivity. Based in Washington DC, Jones works with accomplished leaders in Congress, at major federal agencies, NGOs, universities, and large corporations. She is a popular blogger, and her podcasts are distributed through public media.

For the holidays, please pick up a copy of Beverly's amazing book - perfect for starting the New Year in a better direction.

-- Love Rae

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Welcome to December

Hi Love!


As we go into the next chapter of our lives I just want you to take notice of how intimate this process can be. First, take notice of your accomplishments for the first half of the year and then after, write down your daily affirmations for the the next page in your life.

I was once told before that life is just a long checklist and this is a theory that I truly believe. Usually on a list like this, most people tend to write down their career goals but honestly they need to acknowledge that they want peace and happiness.

For myself, I think knowing those two goals are the biggest part of entering into the next chapter. I've learned to acknowledge all of the greatness around me while also exhibiting my own.

So as we come to the closing of this part of your life, look to the future with a positive and strong attitude. Stay motivated and ambitious but more importantly be fearless.

--Love Rae